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Jealousy means dissatisfaction with ‘who am I’ and ‘what I have got’. Jealousy comes naturally and effortlessly when you compare yourself with others. You want to be like someone who has more power, more riches, more beauty, more talent and when you are unable to achieve the desired effect, you get jealous. You want to have that beautiful woman and unfortunately she loves someone else and there is jealousy.

Once you get trapped into jealousy it will suck your all energy and creativity. A mind which is occupied with jealous thoughts will definitely loose all creativity, charm and grace. Jealousy also creates inferiority complex. You feel jealous of someone means you are giving a lot of attention and importance to other person and accepting that he/she is better than you. This pattern will create inferiority complex. Then things will become more complicated. This jealousy may manifest on physical level as discomfort and illness which has no remedy in medical science. Recently I meet a person who had a paralysis attack just because his junior got promotion before him. Doctors are doing physiotherapy and massage but actually his soul need to be massaged.

Love-break is another cause of jealousy. A common face and boring person with dumb-ass IQ level suddenly becomes the most important person in your life just because he/she rejected you. And many people (not you) loose their mental balance. This person becomes the center of attraction in your life. You feel jealous of that person who has stolen your beloved. I have a good news for those unfortunate heartbroken lovers that there are thousands of beautiful women searching for a macho man like you in shopping malls and there are thousand of boys looking for a dolly polly girl like you on the streets. So don’t waste time in jealousy, hatred and regret. Use that time in window shopping and evening walks.

Jealousy is total wastage of time and most of the people are busy with comparing themselves with others and finding what is missing in their life and occupied with jealousy. You feel jealous because neighbour has a beautiful wife and at the same time that bastard also hates you for the same reason.

This jealousy has manifested on all levels. Pakistan is jealous of India, India is jealous of China, China is jealous of America and America is jealous of all countries which they find their competitors.

Everyone is busy in trying to prove somehow that I’m better than you. One of my friend often says that other women in her office feel very jealous of her because she looks more cute than others. One day I asked her, “but you are fat and overweight….?” She replied, “Yes, I’m fat and overweight but at least I have a cute face, they don’t have even that!”.

We pass this gift of jealousy to our next generations. We teach our children to compete with others. We teach them ambition which is different face of jealousy. Jealousy is a subtle violence.

Jealousy shows that you don’t love yourself. If you really love and respect yourself then how can you feel jealous of others? In jealousy and competition you loose self respect. If you really want a quick remedy on getting free from jealousy than awaken the fire of love in your heart.

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Comparison is the game of the mind. It is programmed deeply into the human brain. Teachers and parents teach children to compare with others.

In reality nobody is greater or smaller. Everyone is exactly same. Each person is made up of flesh, bones, thoughts and emotions. Even animals are just same like men. There is not much difference in a mosquito and a man. Technical or scientific progress on physical plane does not make humans superior than other species.

There is life on many planets and perhaps more advanced than us. They may consider us as a mosquito comparing to their scientific and technical progress.

People live in silly conclusions and judgments. A secret comparison with others is going on all the time in the mind, unconsciously. The brain is programmed to judge people according to their financial status and power. People never go behind the beautiful face to see the ugly mind. Therefore celebrities and politicians are very important in society.

If a politician eating or dancing with a tribal then people will easily get impressed but his eating with tribal is not going to end the poverty of the nation. This is a clever way to make you fool.

If you live in comparison then money and power will become god for you. Money is a piece of paper with a particular print on it. It is just a system to exchange your services. It is not a status symbol.

Your level of awareness is your status. Your PRESENCE is your status.

Next time when you find yourself comparing with others and feeling superior or inferior, become aware and see if this person is having his PRESENCE? Is this person living in the light of awareness? Or he is just a human machine?

A person who is famous or popular does not mean that he is also aware and alert. Perhaps he is also living in confusion and conflict and programmed to believe in stupid ideas. I read somewhere that a famous film star donated millions of rupees to a temple, if he is little bit aware then he could have feed the hungry people on the foot path in front of his house but his mind is programmed to believe in that particular stone as god which will give him more fame and money.

Often I see big portraits of god-mans, saints, avatars, and messiahs in the cabin of surgeon and doctors. If Satya Sai Baba cures your patients then what the fuck YOU are doing? Why should I pay you?

Brain is programmed to respect the old people. Getting old does not make people mature. Many of them spoiled their life and families in alcoholism or egotism and leaved a spoiled, sick and idiot generation behind them.

Brain is also programmed to respect spiritual authorities and their opinions. People switch off their brains when they come across a person wearing a robe. Any human machine who wear special robes and mala, having long hair and beard, doing some nonsense which he believes as meditation is only programmed to behave like this.

Sign of awareness is to question authority and beliefs, not to follow like a sheep.

Long hair or shaving head does not make a human machine free from his mechanical behavior. He is still living in the world of comparison and measurement. Just attaining some meditation camps or belonging to some cult or group does not makes you free. Actually it strengthen your mechanical behavior. It can make you feel different or special than others but this is not freedom.

There is no difference between a man having hundred dollars and a man having billion dollars. All the people on the top position are not different than you. You are not superior or inferior than your friend or neighbor. Having things more or less than others does not makes you special or inferior.

We are living in the society where lovers changing their partners and people changing their wives or husbands but there is not any difference. All human machines are the same. Difference is very superficial or skin deep.

If you stop comparing yourself to others, stop worshiping celebrities, politicians and foolish people involved in the power game then this ACT OF REJECTION itself is the awakening of intelligence and maturity. Then you will feel deeply relaxed, you will save your energy and you will never feel superior or inferior then your friends.

Instead of comparing with others be rooted in yourself. Be yourself.

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A person must be free to do whatever is necessary in any given situation, and not be limited by techniques, systems or concepts. Techniques or systems create a box and limit the individual’s ability to solving any problem. Having lots of techniques may give you flexibility but it’s not freedom. Freedom comes naturally when there is no ego.

Every time you are put in different situation and you must deal with that situation in a different and unique way.

You don’t need techniques to solve the problems but you need to know how to look at them. All problems bring their solution with them. Everyone’s expression of solving a problem is different. One should be able to express himself and move naturally in his unique way in all situations.

The mind or the ego is moving constantly between past and future. Both states are not real and hence limit your ability to perceive the present moment.

All problems bring the solutions when they arrive. If we relax and observe, the solution will become visible and all we have to do is implement it in a natural way which is suitable for us.

Technique based systems of therapies or meditations obviously produce technique based solutions. These artificial solutions may create further complications.

The magic box of techniques however large and powerful, limits your possibilities and how you can adapt to each different and unique situation.

Problems are never the same. If you have a knowledge of techniques and concepts, however large, you try to fit the problem into the existing structure regardless of whether it is proper solution or not. This technique based mind does not allow for new possibilities that may exist.

Like a machine or computer, the mind itself becomes limited. A bigger box is still a box, and a longer chain is still a chain. So for getting the solution of any problem you don’t need series of techniques but to grow in consciousness. You need alertness and simple observation without prejudiced technical mind of a therapist, expert or philosopher.

A person who is alert and wise never seek to control the chaos, he ride the wave of it like a surfer. You cannot control the forces but if you don’t fight you can use them.

MG replied, “Use one eighth of your attention to focus on what you want to accomplish. With the other seven eighths, focus on maintaining your state”.

“If you do this and succeed at maintaining your state, but fail to in your accomplishment, you have succeeded”.

“ If, on the other hand, you succeed in your accomplishment but fail to maintain your state, you have failed.”

“ What is the point if you gain the whole world, and lose your own soul?”

There are many brainwashing techniques but basics are the same – persuasion, threats or reward. Since millennia people are getting tortured to change their religion at the edge of sword.

Repetition of so called divine songs, worshiping dead Gurus and Messiahs, strange techniques of stopping thoughts and sacred rituals are disguised brainwashing techniques.

In the name of dead Gurus or imaginary Gods their disciples are collecting billions of dollars and building holy places while majority of human being is not able to fulfill their basic needs including medicine, food and shelter. There are many organizations which seem very innocent if you look superficially but deep down it is a gutter of religious doctrine in which common people feel grateful and happy to get brainwashed.

It’s really amazing how these people are developing soft skills of persuasion and they are really professional. They can rob almost anyone without being noticed. Their living is very luxurious. They are successfully using media and internet to brainwash and collect donations for maintaining their high living style.

Common people regularly visit so called Holy Man or Sacred Places expecting to get solution for their common everyday problems of relationships, disease or poverty. Root cause of this kind of spiritual slavery is nothing but LAZINESS!

Just because someone put on a robe or raises his hair or braid does not mean that he knows all the answers or the meaning of life. He may even get confused if you simply ask him ‘Who are you?’

Unfortunately he will not be able to answer you. His answers will come from the outdated doctrines. He is not living in the present. He is ancient, he is past, and he is already dead. He is not a man, he is a tomb. I asked very simple and basic questions to many so called famous spiritual leaders but they are only able to talk about past lives, ghosts, spirits, kundalini and samadhi. They want billions to make you enlightened but they don’t want to give you courage to stand on your own feet, which could be done free of cost.

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The brain is like a computer disk which is connected to the internet. You are interacting in the society where people are infected with ‘thought viruses’ of limited beliefs. If a person is not aware then he is prone to these viruses.

Your ‘awareness and doubt’ acts like a filter or ‘Anti-Virus’ program. If you can identify a limiting belief before it affects your consciousness then only you are safe.

How your consciousness gets affected with this thought viruses?

This process is very interesting. Suppose you are talking to someone, and he is having a problematic relationship. He is complaining you about his wife. Now there is no way to understand him EXCEPT you literally imagine that situation in your mind and place yourself in his shoes. And as soon as you do so you get infected, you come home and his problem is now yours.

A person can easily get infected with thought viruses while listening to a politician or so called fake spiritual leader who is appealing for creating a strong vote bank of a particular religion or encouraging you to fight over pity things, getting?

Being around a negative person is like visiting porn or phishing website, fully loaded with Trojans, Warms and Bugs. In that case, sometimes even an updated or latest virus definition can not protect your disk.

Many times a thought virus is a gift from an authority person, for example your doctor or your parents! When a doctor does not believe in the recovery of the patient he is planting a thought virus of his limiting belief on the disk of the patient. When parents impose there limiting beliefs on their children they are infecting their children with limiting beliefs.

If a person is vividly describing or exaggerating his relationship problems, physical discomfort or hateful thoughts then beware! His hateful thoughts can actually program your disk and ruin your relationship. Vivid imagination of his illness can send a message to your unconscious mind. The unconscious mind does not know what is good and what is bad. It simply acts on the message received from the conscious mind.

If that particular patient or that child is able to ‘identify and doubt’ that limiting belief and ‘deny access’ to that thought virus then he is able to protect his disk. ‘Denying access to Limiting Beliefs’ and ‘Doubting the Authority’ is the beginning of Meditation.

Sometimes this limiting belief has a very strong and positive intention behind it and that’s why it’s very difficult to recognize it. It is like a Trojan. It is embedded in sweet sugar pill of positive language.

Many times a person who is spreading this Trojan does not know that in fact his own disk is infected. He works hard for spreading his own limiting belief system or his ‘message’. It’s like a mission for him, and he is a messenger, a messiah. He creates a religion, communism or something like this. Millions of people blindly follow him and never question his belief system for centuries. Millions of disks malfunction and goes on creating an insane world having divisions of nations, religions, languages and colors. The ‘ethnic method of cleansing’ discovered by The Messenger is called ‘The Holy War’ or ‘The Revolution’.

Spending billions of dollars on building holy places or developing atomic weapons while one third of humanity is starving for food is a sign that the whole planet is infected.

Dude, as you finish this article you automatically get updated your virus definition. But still there is no guaranty. You must have to keep updating your definitions regularly with ‘keen awareness and doubt’. And you must scan your disk on regular basis for limiting Beliefs, religious Viruses, political Trojans, emotional Bugs and Mal-ware of different ideologies.

New thought Viruses are regularly being invented and old viruses are getting reproduced. This process goes on, on the unconscious level. Being more conscious by monitoring and regularly scanning your memory is the best option.

Remember, without awareness there is no difference between a computer disk and a human disk which you call ‘The Brain’. Awareness is NOT a concept but a LIVE PROCESS OF MONITORING the belief system and spontaneously denying access, quarantine and deleting Trojans and Viruses.

There are two powerful ‘Anti-Virus’ programs available free on this website for Scanning and Deprogramming the Disk which you people (living on The Planet of Sleeping People) call ‘The Brain’ which you carry on your shoulders, but it is not your own until you free it from the invisible chains:

1) The Ten Dirty Secrets of Getting Enlightened

2) The Thirty Second Meditation

Instead of formatting The Disk and loosing important data, Download and Update your Virus Definitions.

After reading these two books and updating your virus definition you will notice how easy it is to stay on the track with the changes you have made in your lifestyle.

“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it”?

Simple, because the only way to make all your problems disappear is to transcend them.

How..?

That’s what meditation is all about!

Mind creats the problem but it has no solution. Realize that mind is the problem-making machine. When there is no mind there is no problem. In meditation you do not get the solution to your problem but the problem itself get disapeared.

You can transcend all problems with meditation.

When there is clarity there’s no need even to take a decision. You know what to do and just do it.

Buddha said: life is suffering, but once you realize that life is suffering, you no longer have to suffer.

As a human you will always have problems, this is a fact. But if you understand and accept this fact, you are then free from all problems.

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