Is love thought?
If you love your family and hate you neighbor, is that love?
How can you love if you are constantly nagging, demanding or jealous?
You love a person and expect that he should fulfill your every wimp, is that love?
Do you think that your never fulfilling expectations and doubts has anything to do with love? How could a fearful and unsecured person love?
People are destroying their partner and children in the name of love. Most of us assume that to love means to control the other person. Because this is the easiest way to manipulate and spoil.
A person may feel lonely and cling to someone. Generally this is our love. One is dependent all the time. One is feeling empty inside, or feeling week hence the search for relationship or substitute for previous one. Most people finding love and comfort through all this.
We teach our children to love but we also teach them to compete. How could a competitive mind, a calculative mind love?
A mind carrying huge burden of the past can not love. One is able to love if he can live without past. We build an image of a person and look through that image, that image is static, perhaps build from many events, experiences, hurts and memories but still its an image. That image is the barrier we create for safety and convenient, so that we don’t have to learn again and again about this person, even if he is totally changed. We make an opinion. As long as that image or opinion is there one can not love.
Love is simple, love is easy but mind creates complexity. Mind is very much interested in complications, it is the only way it can survive. When the mind comes in with its calculations, doubts and comparisons, love become problem which mind can never solve.
Going beyond the mind means living in love. This love does not need exploiting relationships or god. Living in this love is the only meditation. This love is not focused on any one person, object or nation. It has no cause or direction.
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Gr8 going Dude …………..lage raho .
Nice Work……..LOL
Logoko kehate suna aksar,
Jinda rahe to phir milenge,
Magar is dilne mehasus kiya ki,
Milte rahenge to jinda rahenge.
All that u write seems to b very insane but politically correct… All that v want to do but dare not do, all thats just on ur tongue but hasnt reached brain….. Someone hu follows all that u write(preach) must b either a saint or purely a faker.. hu do u think u r???
kp said… January 25, 2009 10:24 PM
Logoko kehate suna aksar,
Jinda rahe to phir milenge,
Magar is dilne mehasus kiya ki,
Milte rahenge to jinda rahenge.
kp
true dear
gar pyar ek chalawa hota
to pyas oas se bhi bhuz jati,
pyar to pyar hai
jeene ko saath
aur peene ko dariya se bhi jyada mangta hai.
Hum tufano me rahekar kahe ki kashti nahi, kinara nahi chahiye to khud se jhuth hoga…
Hum to insan hai jise pyar-ikrar-aitbaar chahiye, jo bus baat kare use kya sachmuch pyar hoga..
“We build an image of a person and look through that image, that image is static, perhaps build from many events, experiences, hurts and memories but still its an image. That image is the barrier we create for safety and convenient, so that we don’t have to learn again and again about this person, even if he is totally changed. We make an opinion. As long as that image or opinion is there one can not love.”
well said. People do change with time as they face every minute of it. Love does go on demanding more. If u give one thing today ur partner wants something else tomorrow. So???? Doesnt that simply mean that its humane… thats what god made us like.. All nav ras make a human. Absence of even one will make us a siant. absence of all will make us GOD
YOU ASKED: All that u write seems to b very insane but politically correct… All that v want to do but dare not do, all thats just on ur tongue but hasnt reached brain….. Someone hu follows all that u write(preach) must b either a saint or purely a faker.. hu do u think u r???
see, even if i say i’m saint or i’m faker how u r going to find out the truth?
if im saint then i’ll keep quite,
and if i’m a faker then i’ll shout from the roofs that i’m godman, or enlightened.
perhaps i’m a faker or perhaps whatever i’m telling here may b totally wrong.
what is most important for every person to find the truth for himself.
when u know the truth u immidiately know who is a faker and who is real, there is no easy way, so b more watchful and aware.
thanks for ur comment.
thanks KP, nice comment, love and peace!
I absolutely love the way you write and this is true. I don't believe you are a faker nor a saint you are you and I see me in you. I see me in everything. What someone preceives is their preception. Good job. Now what I don't get is why when you love someone that you get jealous when they are with someone else? Love should not be jealousy nor should you feel it?
You asked “why when you love someone that you get jealous when they are with someone else? ”
Simple, because we don’t love!
Love and trust is together.
When you doubt or fearful or jealous that only indicate that there is no love.
Remember you can not love and at the same time doubt. Either you love or you doubtful or jealous. Any kind of insecure feeling is absence of love.
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When love beckons to you follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you yield to him,
Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.
And when he speaks to you believe in him,
Though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden.
For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning.
Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun,
So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.
Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself.
He threshes you to make you naked.
He sifts you to free you from your husks.
He grinds you to whiteness.
He kneads you until you are pliant;
And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for God’s sacred feast.
All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life’s heart.
But if in your fear you would seek only love’s peace and love’s pleasure,
Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love’s threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears.
Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.
Love possesses not nor would it be possessed;
For love is sufficient unto love.
When you love you should not say, “God is in my heart,” but rather, I am in the heart of God.”
And think not you can direct the course of love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
Love has no other desire but to fulfil itself.
But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.
To know the pain of too much tenderness.
To be wounded by your own understanding of love;
And to bleed willingly and joyfully.
To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;
To rest at the noon hour and meditate love’s ecstasy;
To return home at eventide with gratitude;
And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.
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