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]]> A youngster newly fall in love asked MG, “What is love?”

“It is just a four letter word”, replied MG,

“And FUCK?”, asked the boy impatiently,

“It is another four letter word” replied MG quietly.

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Explanation:

Love is mind, it is just a thought. It is your imagination. There is nothing spiritual or mystical in it. You concentrate on one person and think that he/she is the only one. Actually that person has some criteria which is matching to your criteria, that’s all. There is nothing special about it. As long as that criteria is matching, you are friends or lovers. You unconsciously hypnotize your mind that this is the only one. In reality there are many people out there who can be your potential lovers.

Sex is just a need for pleasure. When that need is over love is finished, only relationship is left with its complications. You can never go from Sex to Super-consciousness as Osho has described in his talks. At least I never come across any such person. Sex is a pleasure just like any other pleasure. Sex or celibacy both are mind games. Its only when you understand the futility of chasing sex and love there is freedom from carving and pleasure.

Certain chemicals are released in the brain when you get attracted to someone, it is called Dopamine. It has almost same effect on brain as Cocaine. Serotonin keeps your lover popping in your brain. So love is just a chemical addiction between two people. Oxytocin is released by men and women during orgasm, which deepens the attachment, and you feel closer to your beloved. Vasopress released after sex helps to keep long term commitment and relationship. if you give a drug to suppress the effect of above said chemicals, love will be deteriorate. Chemical effect is strong as long as the lover is new but as the love affair get old the effect is fade up and the search for new lover begins. This is the basic reason of all love breaks.

Love and hate are two faces of the same coin, that is mind. You can not hate the person you never loved.

He/she is not beautiful, attractive or sexy, it’s YOUR mind making you fool.

Love is not god, love is a chemical shit ~ MG

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Make your life simple, do not make it complicated. If you have a wife, then do not find a girlfriend, because it will create unnecessary complications. Make life as simple as you can. Remember one day you are going to die and you will not be able to take anything with you. So do not get attached with anything. Love is not attachment; in fact you can love only if you are not attached. Love means freedom. Love is simplicity. If you love then you will not make your life complicated.
Collecto-mania is nothing but insecurity. Love is total security. Love and death goes together. Love means to die every moment and NOT to collect the past. Then there is no recording of hurt. Love is NOT forgiveness but when there is love one simply does not blame so there is no question to forgive. When you are alert then there is no recording of hurt. If you are aware and somebody insults you then it does not create a disturbance or turbulence in your mind. You are alert and that moment is gone without leaving any mark. It is finished. This is to make things simple. But if you carry that hurt or insult in your mind then you are unnecessary making your life complicated. Don’t waste life in hate and regret.
If your partner is dumb and duffer or stupid then learn how to enjoy living with him/her, this is intelligence. If you are not having enough money then of course try to make more money but meantime learn to enjoy being poor. You can still laugh on yourself and few things only poor people can enjoy. You can take it as a thrill, a challenge or you may feel helpless, it is YOUR CHOICE. If your business is not running well then you can give some time to your family, friends and parents and enjoy. If you are diseased then you can spend time in reading or listening music. You are born with infinite possibilities and capacities, and to use this capacity to focus on worrying is only stupidity.
In adverse situations you have a chance of testing and increasing your mental and physical capacity. Do not find excuses because they also come from the same mind which is having all possibilities. It can give you ‘an excuse’ or ‘a way out’, it only depends on what you are EXPECTING or looking for.
If you stop making complications and make it simple for you then everything is easy. Carry a loving heart with you and things will become simple for you, or remember death and you will automatically avoid all complications or just imagine that you are wearing magical glasses on your eyes and as you look through those glasses you perceive every situation, person and life simple and easy for you.
Egoist person make life complicated and difficult. Ego drains your energy. Ego is a burden. It is stupidity to carry a stupid and non existing ego for your whole life, get hurt upon small things and die with heart attack.
Living simplicity means going with the flow, and flowing with the life. You don’t have to make it better because it is already beautiful and perfect than you can imagine. To love others is difficult so I’ll not advice you to love others but at least love yourself and have mercy on your little pity brain because it can not afford to bear the burden and bullshit which your ego wants to carry.

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]]> In Love

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There are two types of relationship. One is fight, fear and hatred and other is love. First one is ego based. In love there is no ego. When you love fight ceases, ego drops. That’s why you can not love. Love is difficult, because you have to drop the ego. You have to drop yourself. It’s a question of to be or not to be.

Love means not to be.

Relationship becomes pain and anguish when two unhappy persons can not give happiness and love to each other. In fact you are looking for the another person because you are not happy. And the other is also not happy with his loneliness. And both are looking at each other with same expectations.

Relationships are power politics if there is no love. Without love all relationships are binding whether they be of lovers or parent and children or guru and disciples.

When relationship is attachment it is only a means to cover up our loneliness.

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